Having a girlfriend is pretty common these days and it is important for us to learn how we should treat our girlfriend to be able to maintain a good relationship with her. Women think and act in a certain way which is quite different from men, so it is essential for us to learn how their mental system works to be able to recognize what makes them happy and what upsets them. So if you want to learn how you can have a good relationship with your girlfriend, please keep reading.
One of the first and most basic tips I always give men is to tell your girlfriend you love them. These three simple words which are “I love you” is like a drug for most girls and no matter how upset they are with you, it will always calm them down a lot. A lot of men think love has to be shown in actions and not in words, but let me tell you something, women think differently from you. They love hearing how much you love them and sometimes the hearing part is even more important than the actions you take. So make sure every once in a while you tell your girlfriend you love her. You’ll be surprised by the results you get.
When you don’t tell your girlfriend you love her every once in awhile, subconsciously her mind goes towards thinking you are becoming cold towards her and she’s not as lovable as she used to be to you before, this can be resulted in sudden breakups, at least it is sudden for us men because we didn’t know what the reason behind it was. Women think very differently than men, they need constant reminders that their men love them, so make sure to give that to them and you will be rewarded with her affections continuing towards you.
Another great advice I can give you is to make sure you listen to her carefully when she talks. I get it, sometimes women talk too much based on our judgement and as a result of that, we can get bored and start listening, but no matter how boring it is for you to listen to your girlfriend, you should at least get the gist of what she’s saying because she will find out later if you have not. I bet you can name no one in this world that doesn’t like to be listened to, so if you want to be listened to when you’re talking to your girlfriend, it is doubly true for her when she’s talking to you. Verbal communication is the key for any women and we as men have to accept that and live with that. Who knows, maybe you can change the direction of the conversation towards something which is interesting for you as well and turn it into a win-win situation.
Honesty is another important factor in every relationship. I know it sounds like a cliche and we hear that a lot, but a cliche is a cliche for a reason. Women value honesty a lot, this means if you have done something which do you know is undesirable for your partner, it is usually better to be honest with her than to hide that fact. I know, sometimes when you tell your girlfriend something, she will get upset, but subconsciously or consciously she will value your honesty and trust you more and as you know, trust is the foundation of every successful relationship.
Make sure you satisfy her in the bedroom. This again may sound like a cliche to you, but everyday it is becoming more proven that successful sex is very important in every relationship. You need to learn how a woman’s body work and what make them aroused and blow their minds out, this will create an addiction for your girlfriend towards you and she cannot simply let you go because she knows you can give her some feelings which not a lot of other men can do. Most men are selfish in bed, but in today’s world women expect us to care about their sexual needs as much as we do about ourselves. So make sure to satisfy your girlfriend during sex.